Good question!
Well let’s just say, your wedding probably isn’t totally doomed if you don’t mail save the dates. I mean our grandparents didn’t have save the dates and they got married just fine. BUT times have certainly changed so while your wedding may not be doomed, due to everyone’s increasingly busy schedules save the dates have become pretty important.
So why are save the dates so important you wonder?
Well, I’m glad you asked.
1. I’m busy
Like I said, your guests have busy schedules. Sending a save the date will help them juggle long-term plans like vacations. Generally, we recommend sending them out six to eight months before your wedding date.
2. Vacation Weekends
Does your wedding land on a holiday weekend? If so, it’s not only important for your guests to put your date on their calendar, but also keep in mind that hotels and house rentals may book up more quickly than normal. You may want to include accommodation details on your wedding website or on the save the date itself to encourage your guests to start booking!
3. Work Schedules
Is your wedding on a weekday? Remember your guests will need to plan their work schedules accordingly — even if your wedding is on a Friday evening. They’ll have to take rush hour traffic into account and honestly, if your guests are anything like me, they’ll want to leave work a little extra early in order to not feel rushed while applying their makeup.
4. Destination Weddings
Are you planning a destination wedding? If so, we recommend sending your save the dates out earlier, especially if your location requires a passport. Communication is extra important when it comes to destination weddings, so we’ll help you decide what information your guests need early in the process.
“Use caution when sending your save the dates”
One last bit of advice… use caution when sending your save the dates. Only send them to guests you are sure you want to invite. Once they’re in the mail, there’s no turning back if you decide to narrow down your list later in the process.
Ready to get started? Schedule an appointment — we can’t wait to design something beautiful with you!
xoxo, Fat Cat
- Rustic Save the Date photographed by Becka Pillmore Photography
- Save the Date Trio + Gold Foil Photo Save the Date photographed by Fat Cat Paperie
- South Carolina Save the Date Trifold photographed by Morning Wild Photography
- Rose Gold and Trifold Save the Dates designed and photographed by Bella Figura
Work with Fat Cat from your Couch
Over-scheduled? Live out of town? Just don’t feel like changing out of your sweatpants to attend another wedding appointment? WE GET IT. We offer video consultations to make your life easier. And, it’s also a great way to work with a bunch of key family members who can’t be in the same place at the same time.
